Thursday, November 17, 2016

November 17, 2016

This week has been a whirlwind. I'll be brief.

We have had a plumbing issue this week. I found water in our house and with a number of people in and out of here (including one scam artist that God thankfully allowed us to stop before he ripped into our walls...), we have yet to find the problem. The leak detection unit comes out tomorrow. Whatever they find I pray it is easily fixable. So far the damage was not as extensive as it could have been and we are not out too much money. We will see after tomorrow if that still holds true.

The kids have been great through all of this. Everything is off (our schedule, our water, where we have been sleeping), but they have been troopers. I thank God for them. I am exhausted, but I can see His hand in this and I will continue to try to look up and see Him when my heart sinks. Some positive things that have come from this: 1. I am being forced not to sweat the small stuff as we being this holiday season. 2. Francis will never doubt my sense of smell again (it's super sensitive and I could smell the water before we found it) 3. I have an ever growing respect for those without running water. You are seriously amazing. I have been filling up pitchers each morning as we turn on water for showers and then turning it off for the day. That's challenging enough. 4. I am getting the opportunity to show my children grace under trials. I haven't been doing the best job all of the time, but with His help, I am able to come back from the edge of my sanity and show love. 5. I am seeing God's hand in a way I would not have otherwise.

That's all for now. This mess has seriously consumed the week and I have so much to catch up on!

Thursday, November 10, 2016

November 10, 2016

It's been busy around here.
Friday was the last Junction (Parent's night out) of 2016. Francis and I miraculously made it to Dinner at Red Lobster and to see Dr. Strange in Theaters (even after the first place we went was sold out!) Were it not for the previews and us leaving without seeing the extra scenes, we would have missed the beginning of the movie and picked up our kids late. We literally had 2 minutes to spare for each. Good times. It was a blast though, and I enjoy adventures with Francis.

This weekend we attended a party for two of the kids' friends. It was carnival themed and oh so cute! Sunday we got back into our Church/short break/AWANAs routine. Time change seemed to have no effect in our house because the kids were up so late Friday that we just let them stay off. Usually it's the end of the world. It's the small things that make the most difference!

Monday we did the grocery store, Tuesday was CC. It has finally gotten cooler but the temperature drop has brought with it the rain. For the most part the rain hasn't messed up our schedule too much, but thankfully it seems to have let up today in favor of sunshine. Wednesday I told the boys the elections results as we had been talking about the election the night before, and William wanted to know who to add to his Presidents Song (he has the presidents memorized in order). William was happy that all the maps were so red (his favorite color). I gave him a lesson on the branches of government and what would happen in January. He was very interested. Also Wednesday the boys got haircuts and then we went to story time at the library. The Brazos Valley Bombers were there with their mascot Kaboom (a baseball). The kids had fun hugging and high fiving him after hearing some books. Today we went to Hobby Lobby, Toys R Us and our friend Jude's 3rd Birthday party. It was lunch at a local Mexican food restaurant, and the kids had fun on the playground both before and after food.

I've been trying to get as much stuff done as possible for Christmas before I leave for Thanksgiving week. Why? It makes me enjoy December instead of stressing. I say every year that gift giving is not my love language, but I do my best to make sure my love is shown through what I give. I'm hoping to be mostly done with gifts by December 1st so I can soak in this time of year and so my kids and I can spend time loving each other, learning about the true meaning of Christmas and serving our community. Hopefully. I'll let you know how well that goes.

Hannah had her 15 month check-up last Friday. She is still tall, lean and growing perfectly. She is talking more all the time and comes up with new words or phrases at least every couple of days. She asked, "Dada? Wha (where) dada?" on the way back to the house just now. I told her he was at work but would be home later. I think she understood, and it was super cute!

Robert  and William are also well. Robert is doing better about lying (as far as I know). He still will tell me something that isn't true, but he will correct himself before I get onto him. Our fruit of the spirit this week is Patience. William is very good at reminding his siblings of this fact, but not as eager when it applies to him. Can't say I blame him.

I love these kids. They are not perfect (neither am I), but they are each a delight to my heart.

Thursday, November 3, 2016

November 3, 2016

November is my birthday month, and this month is shaping up to be a busy one! We didn't even do everything I had planned, and it was still pretty full.

Last Friday we went to the community trunk or treat in Wolf Pen Creek. The kids got candy from local businesses, did bounce houses and the petting zoo and rode a barrel train. It was fun but overwhelming as there were so many people! Hannah was Belle, William was "William the conqueror" and Robert was Batman. All were adorable!

Saturday Francis was able to enjoy his birthday present with his dad, Gershom and Dave: going to the A&M football game. My in-laws came in early and we had lunch with them and played with them in the afternoon. My mother-in-law and I made a trip to Toy R Us and managed to get some costumes on clearance. William was particularly excited about the Pikachu costume we found for him. It was missing the hat so we made one and he is getting a new hat in the mail. Robert got a transformer costume and Hannah got both Minnie mouse and Elsa costumes. Everyone was overjoyed and insisted on wearing their costumes that evening. when the men left for the game around 5, My mother-in-law and I took the kids to Chuck E Cheese (in costume) where we met up with Audrey (who is amazing and helped it be man to man coverage!). Turns out Chuck E cheese was giving away free tickets to kids in costume, which was an added bonus. Woot! We had pizza and played games until we were tired and all headed back to the house. After putting the kids to bed, the three of us ladies watched A Royal Night Out on Netflix. Super cute movie! And a great night!

Sunday we went to church, had a brief break and then headed back to church in costume (as pikachu, Optimus Prime and Belle) for Fall Fest. More bounce houses, games, candy, food and snow cones filled our night and fun was had by all. Francis and I had to split up and take turns with Hannah because she knew what she wanted to do (play games and eat candy) and the boys just want to do things like ride the mechanical bull. All in a great night!

Monday was Halloween/ Reformation day. We have recently studied the reformation in CC and were able to watch a cartoon about Martin Luther on Amazon Prime (called Torchlighter's Heroes of the Faith). It was informative and interesting, and possibly a little over the kids' heads. But they liked it and seemed to understand at least some of it. I learned a lot too! One of our neighbors rented a bounce house and had hot dogs for whoever wanted them, so we walked that evening (Pikachu, optimus prime and Minnie Mouse) to their house and bounced and played games in their front yard. We hadn't met them before, but it was fun to meet many of our neighbors! On our way back, our kids got candy from anyone sitting out in front of their house. Even with just those few houses, their buckets were full! And so many families were out. It was fun to greet and laugh with those around us. We got back to the house early enough I even passed out some candy too.

Tuesday was CC field trip day. We made the hour drive to Dewberry Farms. Almost all of William's class was there and many kids from the other classes both from our campus and the other 2 campuses in Bryan/ College Station. We rode the hay ride, did zip lines, rode race cars, played in the hay and playground, picked out pumpkins, and did so much more! It started to rain around lunch, so after eating in the covered pavillion we headed home. All three kids fell asleep on the way back. It was a CC miracle!

Yesterday we were going to go to the Renaissance Festival for their special school days, but plans fell through. We ended up going to Walmart and Story time at the Library which more than filled our morning. On the way home every car in front of me was turning into vote. I was so glad I already had last week! Today was MOMs day. We had a speaker on Random Acts of Kindness. Very inspiring.

School is still going well. William is reading at least one book at bedtime each night. We've been checking out the early readers from the library and he is only needing a little help here and there with them. Robert has just as much of a thirst for knowledge as William and will not let me skip his "school work". A more dedicated 3-year-old you are not likely to meet.  His vocabulary is more expansive than many kids his age. Sometimes it takes me three or more tries to figure out what he's saying because he picks words that I didn't even know he knew. Hannah's personality comes out a little more every day. She got her first little pony tail this morning thanks to her teachers and she was strutting her stuff when I picked her up. She says "yeah" or "no" when you ask her is she wants something and yells "more more" from the back seat if she runs out of snack while I'm driving. I love her to pieces and it's fun to see her grow.

Aaand Hannah's up from nap. Until next time!

Thursday, October 27, 2016

October 27, 2016

It's been a weird week at our house. Robert and I have both made a trip to the doctor and are on anitbiotics. I think we are both on the mend though.

Last Saturday was my father-in-law's birthday. We celebrated by meeing up with my in-laws, Cyndy, Chris and Abby in Houston to take family pictures and go to Blessington Farms (a local pumpkin patch and playland). The kids had a blast doing all the activities and overall, the day was warm and wonderful. I've got a great father-in-law, in case there was any question. He really loves his kids and grandkids and we really love him too.

William has been making leaps and bounds when it comes to reading, writing, math and well all things academic. He's reading books to me and writing "books" (sentences) like it's just natural. He's memorized the books of the Bible all on his own (I got that surprise on Tuesday) and is remembering his CC work like a pro. With all of this new found knowledge is also coming a boldness that I am having trouble with. Pray for me as I teach him how to be respectful and yet honest, confident but not arrogant. It's a delicate balance.

Robert is also learning so much. He has down his letters and numbers and is even writing a few when it suits him. We are currently working on him writing his name. He also learns the CC memory work just because he wants to and is probably the only 3 year old around who goes around singing in Latin for fun. Seriously, the other night at dinner, the boys were belting it out in Latin just for kicks. I love my nerdy family. Robert has discovered lying. He's done it a few times this week, and is not liking the consequences. I'll give it to him that he's persistent, even when I know he's lying he sticks to his guns. Only when he is punished does he come out with the truth. I'm hoping after he misses his TV show today, that he will realize the truth is a much better option. If not, pray for me as we teach him the value of your words being truthful and believable.

Hannah is growing like crazy. She understands what is going on and is sharp as a tack. Francis and I were talking about doing a family walk the other night and I turned around and Hannah was holding up her shoes to me. If I tell her to clean up, she does (if it suits her) and she is very good at answering yes or no questions accurately. We had a mommy/Hannah date at a local church Fall Fest Sunday evening while the boys were at AWANAS with Francis. She had a little trouble at first with putting the candy in the bucket, but she quickly caught on as she played each game with her own twist. She bobbed for apples with her hands and spent the next 6 or seven games playing one handed while she ate the apple. She kept this up until she decorated a cookie and took a bite. Hannah quickly set down the apple and went two-fisted for the cookie. Smart girl. She too has been pushing the limits this week, mostly with doing something after I say no.

I haven't been feeling well and perhaps that's why my kids have been pushing boundaries. Hopefully I will feel back to 100% soon, and things will return to a better normal!

Till next time!

Thursday, October 20, 2016

October 20, 2016

Well, Batman and Wild Kratts are no longer kings in this household. Although Robert has worn batman once this week, he has chosen Transformers and Star Wars first. Wild Kratts is still fun, but William is loving Magic School Bus more these days. The winds of change are here. Hannah still loves dress up and playing with her brothers, so at least she is still somewhat predictable (as predictable as 14 month olds can be, lol).

Friday, The kids and I drove up to Abilene. It is a 4 1/2 hour drive, but we took longer because we made a stop at Chick-fil-a to stretch our legs and eat. We made it late afternoon and arrived where my grandparents (Jamama and Japapa) live. Hannah got to meet Jamama for the first time. Among her mutterings, she kept asking, "didn't I meet her yesterday?" in reference to Hannah. I didn't think much of it, but she kept saying, "Here sweet Hannah" while looking at her. Finally toward the end of our visit, Jamama looked at Hannah reached out her arms and said, "Come here sweet Hannah. Come here!" in the sweetest tone. I teared up and walked Hannah over to Jamama and she touched Hannah's face.  The boys and Hannah loved on Japapa while we were there, and we all made a walk around the pond there (Jamama in the wheel chair). William dazzled Japapa with all of his new found knowledge and the afternoon was one I will replay in my mind for years to come. As we left, Robert without hesitation ran up to Jamama and give her a big hug and kiss. She stroked his cheek and smiled. The kids all hugged and kissed on Japapa. We made plans to meet the following day. We then drove over to Rebecca and Dave's house. The kids stayed with Rebecca's mom and sister Rachael that evening while Dave, Rebecca and I got to attend SING. I'm not sure who had more fun: the kids playing with Rebecca's son Jonas, or us!

The next morning, Rebecca, all for kids and I headed to campus for HSU Homecoming. I got to see a few old professors, and way more of my former classmates than I thought possible. It was good for my soul to catch up with so many people in person, including a couple I knew from when we lived in Austin. We even ran into my future brother-in-law Kevin, which really confused William. It was so out of place and he couldn't understand that Kevin is living in Abilene since we only ever see him in Dallas. Japapa joined us a little later, which was a blessing as he was able to help me keep an eye on the kids during Cow Poke Posse. The kids jumped on inflatables, rode horses, got their hair colored, did crafts, got balloon animals, and got fake tatoos. Hannah particularly loved the horses. She tried to jump the line to climb on one. After her horse ride, she spent much of the rest of the time following around the miniature horse and petting it. When that wasn't happening, she was cuddling with Japapa. She was quite taken with her great-grandfather. All the kids were, in fact. When he wasn't holding Hannah, he was getting hugs from or playing with Robert or he was listening to a story from William. We all had lunch in the cafeteria. The kids thought it was so cool to be eating in a COLLEGE cafeteria. William got a crepe and the man behind the counter should get raise. He made the crepe into a production adding all of the toppings and fruit William could ever want. As he passed over the crepe to William he said, "If you come here for college, I'll make you this crepe every day in the cafeteria if you want." William was instantly sold. There was a piano man there and Robert and Jonas had a delightful time bustin' a move to the music. Hannah joined in occasionally but was way more concerned with their selection of ice cream. We then took Japapa and Rachael to the HSU cowboys football game. It was hot and the 'boys were winning handily, so we left just before half time to head home. Seriously an amazing trip. I am so glad the kids were able to spend time with their great-grandparents and my good friends. Francis met us in Temple on the way home for dinner and then graciously drove the kids the rest of the way while I drove his car.

Sunday was Francis's 30 birthday. We had donuts for breakfast, and then he got to open his gifts. The kids got him some model rockets for them to build together and his parents and I got him 4 tickets to the A&M football game on October 29. He is going to get to go with his dad, Gershom and another friend. I think it was a nice surprise. After church I surprised him with a birthday lunch at the Browers house. Audrey came over too and after lunch the adults got to talk while the kids played. After AWANAS that evening, I had Francis's favorite meal, lasagna, all ready and waiting for him. It was some of the best lasagna I've ever made. Happy Birthday, Francis! We are so blessed to have you in our lives!

Yesterday the kids and I went to the Children's Barnyard event at A&M. The kids ran around and learned about all types of livestock, climbed on a tractor and generally ran around. Then we did story time at the library which just happened to be about farms. Score one for educational moments! After that, my kids STILL did not nap. I know 'm just fooling myself, but I keep hoping that if I wear them our they will nap...nope!

Today Francis had to be at school and I had MOMs so I had someone babysit William at a park while I went. The girl is actually someone I babysat when I was younger. She's a senior at A&M now and turning into an amazing lady. She walked with William around the park for 2 hours to play Pokemon Go. William had "the best time ever". At Moms I made a cotton wreath. It was confirmation once again that I 'm not crafty and cannot make bows. The end result came out ok though!

That's all for now.

Thursday, October 13, 2016

October 13, 2016

The fruit of the spirit we have been focusing on this week (after buys some "fruit of the spirit" cards at MOMs last Thursday) is love. We have talked about what love means and how we show love. the boys know Galations 5:22-23 by heart, and I'm realizing they understand it a lot more than I thought. I can't wait for the day when each one of my kids is ready to choose and accept Christ as their savior. Until then, I will continue to bring them up in truth and yes, love.

This past weekend was our relaxing weekend pretty much until Christmas. We hung around the house most of Saturday as I Christmas shopped online and Francis built things in the garage with the kids. We rested and watched the A&M game on TV and then I picked up dinner so we could have family movie night. Overall, time well spent. Sunday after church we had a short break before Francis and the boys headed back for AWANAS. I vaccumed, cleaned, sorted laundry, looked over this weeks school lessons and even managed to catch some of the Cowboys fooball game.

This week has been quick and slow all at the same time. Slow in that I feel like I'm getting nothing productive done (which isn't true, but feelings are just that), and fast in that it's already Thursday. I had ladies night last night with my MOMs group and it was a nice time to talk and realize I'm not the only one who feels there are not enough hours in the day.

Speaking of not enough hours, the kids and I are heading to Abilene tomorrow and coming back Saturday for HSU homecoming and to see my mother's parents. It's a long trip in a short time, but I know it needs to happen. I've been frantically packing. Please pray for peace and smooth travel. I'm looking forward to the trip but not the scream-laden back seat while I drive.

Francis's birthday is Sunday. We've decorated the house, wrapped presents and the kids helped make and decorate a carrot cake for their daddy. They are so excited to get to do things for him. They have also been great at keeping his gift a surprise. Less than 4 days until he is 30!

Short, and not nearly comprehensive, but there it is.
Till next time!

Thursday, October 6, 2016

October 6, 2016

This weekend, I made it to and from Dallas with no incident (yay!). The kids were good for the trip. we even ended up having playgroup at the same park as last year before I took this trip. I thought it was kinda cruel, but my mother told me to look at it as a chance for redemption: a do over. So I did. I prayed and carefully drove and arrived thanking God and all but kissing the ground. We play at my parent's house Friday afternoon, and had dinner with them and my in-laws at BJs (yum!). I went back with my in-laws and we put the kids down for the night.

The next morning, we took the kids up to the mall to meet up with Danielle and my mom. William needed to get measured for his tuxedo for Danielle's wedding. Afterward, my father-in-law took the boys and the ladies (my mother-in-law, mom, Danielle, Hannah and me) had a delightful time shopping and getting many needed things on sale (and a few less needed, but still super cute things too!). It was so fun and a break I very much needed. Hannah is a great shopper, it turns out. She was awesome the whole time and even started to hang things she wanted on her arm by the end. I can see some great mommy/daughter shopping trips in our future! The boys went to the Lego store, playground and chick-fil-a before we met them back at my in-laws. We then went swimming (yes, swimming in October...it's still warm here), and had "family movie night" over dinner. All in all a great and super relaxing day!

Sunday was not relaxing, but full of fun and energy. My mother-in-law and I took the kids to the State Fair of Texas! We met up with Christian, Chad, Christian's friend May and the twins for the backyard circus. Robert only wanted to watch, but William enthusiastically played a tiger. then we had lunch where my mom, Danielle and Kevin joined us. the party was complete. We did the petting zoo, puppet show, craft show, Hall of Texas building, parade, and fireworks show. And ate some yummy food too! At the end of the day, Nana and I took the kids to the midway to ride a couple of rides (Hannah finally passed out before we got there). The boys loved choosing two rides each, and rode with delight. The kids were so good all day. Before the parade, when the kids should have been completely worn out, Robert and Hannah were having a dance party with Sweetie and Nana and William was talking about and playing Pokemon with Uncle Chad. My kids don't stop when fun is involved!

We headed back Monday (still managing to fit in school!), and then had CC on Tuesday and story time at the Library on Wednesday. Today was MOMs. One of the best things about home school is that even with travelling and being sick, we have not had to miss a day of school. And William is reading a ton. He can pick up a simple book and read it with no problems. He is adding and subtracting numbers 1 through 10 and can even do some algebra(i.e. x+2=4 so X=2). Robert knows all his numbers up to 20 and beyond and can write most of them. He is learning his letters very well also. Hannah is talking up a storm to anyone who will listen. She plays great with her brothers and "cleans up" by putting everything in the trash. It's cute and terrifying because I keep catching her putting things like the remote in there. She'll get it figured out soon enough, I'm sure. We've still been taking evening walks. Tuesday we walked over to our neighborhood's "National night Out" and met some of the neighbors. William did not want to go (he wanted to go to the park), but quickly changed his tune when he saw the police car, fire engine and tons of kids to play with. The kids all got to climb up in the fire engine. Hannah was insistent on her inclusion, and the firemen say they are pretty sure she's the youngest person to have been in their cab. She was pretty pleased with herself as she looked around and explored. I never have to wonder what she's thinking, her face is very expressive. 

Every once in a while I feel the need to add the disclaimer that I try to write mostly the good things that happen to us here. Life is not all peaches and cream here, but I want to dwell and meditate on the good while learning from the bad. This life is far from perfect. I don't ever want to pretend that it is.